(Closed) Need some advice…

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

tough situation!!  i’d tell your sis that while you’d kill to have her expertise, you ACTUALLY need her to do X, Y and Z on the wedding day and that those tasks will take priority and would be more special.  Give her something that will make her feel honored and included.  You could also tell her you wanted to treat HER to getting her hair done for a day alongside you and had set it up in advance as a special surprise, but are now telling her so she doesn’t expect to do your hair.  It would be an extra expense for you, but I think it’s worth it to make sure you look the way you want that day.

Post # 4
2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oy. I see your predicament.

I’d let her know that that’s awesome and you really appreciate the offer! But you want her to relax and enjoy herself without having to worry about work.

If she’s adamant (or you feel she would be), let her know that you’ve been planning for months to have your hair done by your stylist and would she be willing to do the bridal party and flower girls?

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