- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2011
My future family is great. I mean his dad is nice, his sisters are both nice, his brothers are nice.. ones really annoying but he isn’t a bad kid. His mom is feniomal. You are probably asking what is the problem then.. Well, his mom is the only “mom figure” that has been helping with the wedding. Well first of all she isn’t exactly thrilled with the wedding. (She is happy for us..but thinks we should wait a year.. but doesn’t want us to live together..) well when she is happy about the wedding she is always telling me to ask his older sister for wedding advice. well first of all I know she is in the Hospitality Management Business (which is what I wanted to go into before I knew his sister was one) and she has gotten married. Well a lot changes in three years and it is driving me crazy! A lot has changed in 3 years. Like prices. They compare a lot of what we choose based on how much they spent. Plus she and I don’t really know eachother that well. I know his little sister way better ( She is like my second Maid of Honor. I love that girl). We have different tastes and styles and she seems kind of off on some of my wedding ideas. I know his mom is just trying to be helpful and all but I just really cannot keep hearing.. well maybe you should ask k about it.. and maybe k would know how to do that better. I bet k could find you one.. etc etc etc. The newest family thing she asked me is that since they are going to be on vacation when we do our food tasting that we need to bring kayleen. The last thing I need is for her to diss our venue.
I am on my edge with it right now..
How do I keep my cool and make sure no ones feelings get hurt. I know in some ways she could be of help.. but not every decision made needs to be k approved. It doesn’t help that his family has more money than mine and so they are paying for a lot of the wedding. I love my future family.. but grr. She had her wedding.. let me plan mine! >.< I haven’t even begun to tell them I am thinking about using clutches instead of the traditional flowers…
Any advice, stories, anything… 🙂 I know my Weddingbees will give me great advice!