Post # 1
Hey guys, for the last six months I have been in a relationship with an incredible man. We met through a friend that I went to college with, and as soon as we met we hit it off. Going into the relationship we placed God as the center. Every night before we went to bed we prayed and thanked God, and ultimately asked him to do his will in our lives. About two months in the relationship he and I talked about how we felt like each other was the one. His parents had felt the same way, as well as mine. We decided to get promise rings/ purity rings. Randy and I both are saving ourselves for the day we get married. We both are still virgins and waiting on God for that person. This last month has been extremely hard, but up to this point it has been amazing. Two weeks ago I had a surgery that would tell us if we could have kids or not. God blessed me and told me we could. My mom said he bawled in the waiting room, he said we can have kids. Two weeks exactly from my last day of recovery he called me and said I don’t think your the one anymore Kali and I feel like were in two different times in our lives. Well all this week he has called me and checked up on me. Tuesday I asked him if he still missed me and he said yes of course. I think about you often, especially when I look down to find my ring and it is not there. He said it was funny because he had a tan line there. He has made it very clear that God is in control and no matter what he wants to be my friend. Friday which is tomorrow he is coming to get his stuff and talk since the breakup. I don’t feel like it is over, but I guess I have to face it. I have been in my word and sincerely praying very hard everynight. I need your guys help, please if you could get me some advice! Thank you and God bless you!
Post # 3
I’m so sorry 🙁 That’s a really sad situation. I would try to let God be in charge and have faith that he has a plan. Everyone comes into our life for a reason, we just don’t always realize what that reason is until later. Get some ice cream or some other treat and watch funny movies after he’s gone. Get your mind off of him. Have a girls night or something. Everything will work out.
Post # 4
so sorry to hear – breakups are never easy. hope you feel better soon.
Post # 5
He may just need space to think about things. That surgery really made things concrete, and someone he loved was hurting and it might not have turned out the way you both wanted it. I’m so sorry you’re going thru this but hang in there, if this man isn’t what God had planned, that just means God has other plans for you! (((HUGS)))
Post # 6
I am so sorry. Sounds like things got really intense really quick (talking about “the one” after six months), then fizzled out. Try not to push it with him or beg for him back.
Post # 7
He can still care about you and want to check up on you but not want to be with you. Men check out a long time before they actually break it off. It sounds to me that he wanted out but waited until you recovered to tell you.
Post # 8
Thank you guys. Tomorrow will be very hard but I know we serve a big god that can do manY amazing things. I am for sure going to miss him but as long as he is happy. That’s all I ever wanted. But I’m just praying for Gods will. Please if you guys could keep praying for me.
Post # 9
praying!! just remember to stay calm and remember your value. God has a plan.