(Closed) need some perspective please

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1765 posts
Buzzing bee

I am sorry that you are going through that.   I am glad that you have a good Maid/Matron of Honor though, that really helps.  Just remember that the wedding is just one day, you will then be married to your SO and that’s what really matters! 🙂

Post # 4
1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

It certainly doesn’t sound like you’re being a bridezilla.  I’m convinced that some people are just flaky by nature, and there’s not much you can do except to roll with it.  One of my BM’s I was pretty close to six months ago when I asked her to be in my wedding, and now we barely talk to each other, despite my occasional proddings.  We met to order the BM’s dresses and later for a dinner to introduce all the BM’s to each other, and both times she seemed kind of distant in conversation and left early.  The other BM’s actually commented on her depressed attitude.  I know she’s going through a tough time in her life working at a job she doesn’t care for and for other reasons, and if I hadn’t invited her to be my Bridesmaid or Best Man I would just leave her alone to do her soul searching for a while.  It’s kind of a tough spot to be stuck in.  So I can see where you’re coming from with your BM’s, and I hope at least things go smoothly on your wedding day!

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