- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
I only have 2 really close friends. They both have been my best friends since high school and my relationships with them both since high school has been colored with periods where we didn’t really stay in touch just because life gets in the way sometimes….but when we get back in touch, it’s like we never lost touch in the first place….anyways, I’m still hesitant on what I should do as far as my bridal party….my one friend “A” – I’ve always wanted her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor so that’s a given….but I feel that her life is filled with stress right now and who knows how it will be when it gets closer to the wedding…my other close friend “B” – I want to ask her to be in the bridal party but I’m unsure of whether to ask her to just be a bridesmaid or to be a Matron of Honor (she’s married)….i feel that she would most certainly help me as an Maid/Matron of Honor would but I don’t want to hurt “A” or make her feel like I don’t think she’s enough to fill the Maid/Matron of Honor shoes…
Then my other issue is what if FH decides to have more than just 2 GMs? I liked the idea of the guys walking down with the girls but what if it becomes an uneven number? I don’t want to pressure FH to make his Groomsmen decisions now cuz we still have time…
I suppose I don’t have to make these decisions now either but I kinda was thinkin I should only cuz I want to include my two best friends in all the wedding planning and such that I’m starting now….