(Closed) Need to End it For Good…(a little long)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Do you live near your parents?  Are you close enough to them that you can explain what’s going on?  What about girlfriends in your area?  You definitely need someone to lean on right now.  You’re so smart to realize that even though you love this person, he is not a good fit for you and isn’t what you need in your life.  You’re in a sticky situation, and I hope you have someone in your life who can help you out a little bit.  Sorry you have to go through this, but I think you’ll be better, stronger, and happier down the road 🙂  HUGS!!

Post # 4
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1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It’s ok to rely on loved ones! I hope you’re okay and find someone who can help out. You’re doing the right thing leaving this situation, please keep us posted so we know you’re ok.

Post # 6
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1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

((hugs))  The challenges ahead may seem insurmountable now, but once you take that first step, everything else will start to fall into place.  Find somewhere to stay, first.  Don’t be afraid to reach out to your parents, extended family, or friends (maybe someone with a basement apartment so you feel more of a sense of independence).  Once you make that transition, you can start to look for a job.  By reaching out to friends/family, you might find some good contacts and leads for work.  Heck, you can even reach out on the local boards here for any job leads.  And most of all, remember that ending your engagement is not a personal failure of any kind, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.  People are constantly changing and growing; sometimes a couple can change and grow together in a beautiful way, but sometimes, as in your FI’s case, he’s changing in a way that makes him no longer a suitable partner.  Love alone isn’t enough.  Good luck going forwards.

Post # 7
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1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

That is so sad 🙁 you need to surround yourself with those you trully cary about you and will help support you in this time.  Just be glad you found out now that and that you arent married to somebody who will not support you “for better or for worse”  Take care of yourself, you come first! Remember you will be happy agian and hopefuly soon!! Good Luck and be very proud of yourself for taking the right steps it will make you a stronger and better person!

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