Post # 1
So i basically want to really fit into this dress. I currently weigh around 175 lbs and im 5’4. my main problems are my stomach and hugeee back because ive been told by my sister and friends that my legs are actually quite skinny lol. so im not proportional what so ever. I normally wear a size 7 jeans no matter what store they are from, and a large top. the last dress that i bought was a while ago for my senior prom and that was a size 15/16 and it still fits. but i would feel great if i could fit into this size 14. soo anyway how much do you think i need to loose in order to fit into it ?
also i know my bottom half might look huge but i promise im not that huge..the puffiness of the dress doesnt help lol, but love that it is a princess ball gown style
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Post # 2
If the difference in the dress was an inch or two it wouldnt be a problem, but this dress looks to be several inches too small. Every inch is about 10lb. Depending on what you lose and how much you tend to lose in the area you need to go down in, this may not be doable.
You may have to have a seamstress put a corset in the dress if you are deadset on wearing it.
Post # 3
Wedding dress size 14 may not be the same sizing as your other dress – Sizing can be really wonky sometimes.
You could always have a corset put in. Hopefully the wedding isn’t March 2015? Did you already purchase this dress? It is very pretty 🙂
Post # 4
15- 20 lbs. OR – you can have the seamstress alter the back to be corset style. This happened to me at my first wedding. . . I have the same type of body- slender legs but gain weight in the tummy and back.
I got so stressed out coming up to the wedding I didn’t lose the weight as expected. . EEEEEEK. So they turned the back into a lace up and as a lace up you can gain or lose however much and it will always fit — and it will always be beautiful . .
I’ll show you a pic-
Post # 5
thanks to everyone! and yeah wedding isnt until may so i have a little bit of time, i have considered the corset options, but for now ill continue to excersise 🙂
Post # 6
Why do you want to wear this dress?
As another May bride… May is rapidly approaching. If I were you I would buy a new dress. I’m sorry that this doesn’t fit. But the last thing you want is the stress of trying to lose a a sigificant amount of weight in the months immediately preceding the wedding.
Post # 7
Take your measurements and compare it to your designer’s size requirements. That’s what I did too fit into my dress. I lost 12 lbs, 2.5″ off my hips, 1.5″ off my waist, and 1″ off my bust, all in a month and a half. If you have to lose more than 1-1.5″ a month, I recommend buying another dress. I’ve been on a crazy workout schedule (5-7 days/week fairly intense activity) and watching everything I eat to achieve what I have – in a healthy way being aware of what my body needs.
Post # 9
+1 or take it to a seamstress now and do the alterations to make it fit as you are. I’m also May and wondering if I’ll lose 2″ total by the…this dress is smaller than that on you and you just don’t need that stress.
Post # 10
I agree with PP’s that my guess would be 15-20 lbs and that adding a corset back is a good option.
I also agree that if your wedding is only a few months away, it probably isn’t the best idea to bank on losing a bunch of weight and fitting into your dress. Especially if you tend to carry weight in specific areas on your body… which suggests that even if you DO lose a lot of pounds, it may not necessarily mean you lose a lot of INCHES in the areas you need to. Just IMO, but if I were you, I would try to find another dress (like, now) or get this dress into a seamstress to add a corset back.
Post # 11
Even if you do lose a lot of weight, it still may not fit. I’m saying this with experience. My dress is a size 4. I am 5’6 and weighed about 125 when I brought the dress in October. It fit then, but it was a bit tight in the bust. Now, I am 114 pounds and when I compare my measurements with the size chart, my bust/upper back is still 1 inch wider than the size 4. I don’t plan on losing more weight because I don’t want to look like a skeleton. All I’m saying is that even if you do lose a lot of weight, you can’t control where you lose it from. Personally, I would not risk buying a dress that small.
Post # 12
- Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast
May is rapidly approaching… I’d like to lose 5-10 lbs for my dress and honestly I’m starting to get worried. It’s going to be some serious work. (The sample i tried on was too big but when my dress came in the same size it just barely zipped! ah!!)
You might need to lose 20-40lbs to fit into that dress with it zipped. (guessing?) I’d certainly look into it being altered into a corset-style because that will give you a lot of wiggle room.
To do it… Cut out all soda/juice. Drink water (add lemon or fruit for flavor). Drink coffee/tea black. Cook all your meals. Limit carbs… breads/pasta/sugars. be active 30-60min a day. (i like the blogilaties calendars for free workouts.) avoid processed/packaged foods. use an app like loseit or my fitness pal to track. but don’t starve yourself… if you’re hungry fill up on low calorie items (veggies, fruit).
lunch: chicken, veggies, fruit
dinner: chicken, veggies, fruit.
Snacks: veggies, greek yogurt, air-popped popcorn, apple w/ cinnamon
flavor: season things with lemon/pepper, balsamic vinegar, hot sauce, garlic, other dry spices that doesn’t add calories.
Post # 13
- Wedding: October 2015 - Drury Lane Oakbrook
Agree with the corset option. A friend of mine bought her (discontinued) dream dress on ebay but it was a size 12 and she was a street size 14. She worked her butt off for 10 months to lose weight, but in the end a corset really was her best option- especially since she could still continue exercising closer to the wedding and knew that the corset would adjust to her if she lost more weight.
Post # 14
it’s hard to give an exact weight. I mean is it all in the stomach if so a good 5 to 10 lbs. If you are gaining muscle you are ovobviously going to lose fat and gain muscle which means that you may only need to lose about 5. So just keep working out and don’t focus on any numbers but focus on the inches you will be losing. I think you need to reset your goals to inches because we can’t really say lose 5 10 or 15 lbs to fit in the dress because we truly don’t know. Material of the dress cam make a difference. Keep up the good work and don’t focus on the lbs you lose. It’s just a number. I weigh about 135 and believe me i have fat around my stomach. I have seen girls weigh 135 and have no fat and look perfect. Again keep up the good work and just focus on that dress fitting perfectly and not the scale.
Post # 15
Good call considering the corset as a backup. Ithink you’ll need about 15lbs off, and its doable, but I’d urge you not to do anything drastic. Your health, as always, comes first.