(Closed) need to let off steam. house guest rant

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

good luck 🙁 that’s no fun at all, i’d lose it.

Post # 4
Hostess
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Horrible!! Next time he calls to say he’s coming over tell him that someone else is visiting!! A few times and maybe he’ll get the hint? Or tell him bluntly that as much as you welcome him that him staying over is starting to impede on your social and personal life.

Not cool at all.

 

Post # 6
Member
9139 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Good for you for talking to your FH about this!  This guy is using your place like a crash pad with no respect for you and your privacy.  If he is coming over to visit then he should be visiting not sleeping on your couch.  Once you and your FH decide on how to handle this most unwelcome guest, have a polite conversation with the guy letting him know what is and isn’t acceptable as far as him coming over to visit.  And if you and your FH are okay with him using your place as a crash pad I would ask for some rent to pay for the TV and electricity he uses while there.

He needs to man-up and move closer to his job if he doesn’t like driving an hour after working overnight.

Post # 7
Hostess
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@oneovakind:  Aiya… Change your keys? I hope he doesn’t have a key… or if he calls you to crash, ignore his calls and then later respond with “omg i was out sorry!” Sorry… I can be passive aggressive sometimes. =P

ohhh and if he is over so often, you should tell him that he should sublet a room from you and chip in for the utilities! you’re not a charity!

Post # 9
Member
349 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Ugh I have a house guest this week too – she’s not bad but I could kill my fiance for how he’s been acting. I’m currently holed up in my room because I feel like I might go off on him if I go downstairs.

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