(Closed) Need to Vent

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
342 posts
Helper bee

You’re too young to be this anxious about getting married, girl.  The majority of your relationship was in your adolescence. I would just try to breathe! Try to revel in your relationship, rather than in the pain of waiting.

Post # 3
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I doubt he is trying to taunt you, but rather affirming that he does want to marry you someday. I know what waiting feels like, but I really wish I’d cherished that time in our relationship rather than looking only for the next step. I wasted a lot of time worrying about something that fell into place right when it was supposed to.

Post # 4
3223 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Like the PP said, you’re way too young to be stressed out about not being engaged yet. You’re both so young. Yes you’ve been together for 5 years, but most of those years were as teens. What’s the rush? 

Post # 5
99 posts
Worker bee

I don’t think your too young. I was engaged at 21 and although a majority of our relationship was in our adolescence, it still counts to me. We grew together and learned together, and not many people can say that. I know waiting sucks, but I agree with what the previous posters have said. It is nice to be able to enjoy the time you have with him. It will happen one day and then everything will fall into place. I wouldn’t worry so much about it right now and just worry about getting your lives together first. 

Post # 6
40 posts

Just enjoy being together… you have a lot to enjoy about life and your relationship right where it is at your age. 

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