- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
We are getting married next July, we live in Ontario but are getting married in Cape Breton (FH) is from there. I have been having a hard time with his mom going crazy wanting to invite everyone under the sun. We asked for their guest list 3 months ago and told her that we had to keep it realistic, I am ok with her inviting 200 people because I am not having alot of my family come due to the travelling. so when her list came originally, we had her cut it down, FH has been great at keeping her “inline” so to speak. my problem is I don’t know her that well, we only met last summer while we were there for 2 weeks, i think she’s great, but she is very protective of her “baby boy”. so I try not to be harsh with her since I don’t want to ruin a very new relationship. well, i asked her for some addresses that I couldn’t find myself, and she faxed them t ome today and she has added more names yet again, and then told me t osend her some extra save the dates so she can send some out!?! WTF??? haven’t we been over this already??? so FH is gonna have to have a talk with her again and set her straight. (He’s been handling her as he knows how she can be iguess)… thank goodness he is so amazing!
He is on my side on this as we are the ones paying for the wedding, if they were, then go for it, but I can’t afford to feed over 300 people (just her list!)
ahhhhhh, k thanks I feel better now.