Post # 1
I’ve been feeling so depressed lately… I just need to vent and get it out of my system…
I always wanted a small simple wedding and I was really into the idea of a destination wedding. To please my fiancees mom we are having our wedding locally and it turned to be a huge event. I love the venue and it has a lot of meaning to us but I just wished we could have chosen to get married on the beach. It would be less expensive and more relaxing. We gave the deposit and there’s no turning back now…. I can’t really talk about it with my sisters because they are on my case because I am not having bridesmaids.
I just feel like eloping and forgetting about all this. I’ve been stressed out and I actually gained around 40 pounds in the past year and that’s making it worse.
Thanks for listening bees…
Post # 3
I hear you, I’ve been trying to convince Fiance to just go to vegas, it would be honeymoon and wedding all in one, and a heck of alot cheaping then a wedding with 125 people.
Post # 4
I know… Did you decide on anything yet???
Post # 6
I hate hearing how other people dictate someone’s wedding! They’ve already had their wedding..do yours the way you want!
Post # 7
I had the same problem. I wanted to go get married in The Bahamas somewhere but my husbands family really wanted a large wedding, as did my parents so we gave in.
Almost 5 weeks later my Mother-In-Law and SIL hate me because I didn’t do everything their way and my mom feels like my husabnds family hates her.
I don’t regret my wedding because it was amazing and I got to celebrate with ALL of my friends and family, but the drama was just not worth it.
If you really truly do not want a big wedding, then don’t have one. This is your one day where you can choose to do it however you want. If you want to go elope, then go! Don’t let anyone stop you from being happy on you day!