(Closed) Need to vent about family…why are they like this???

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1715 posts
Bumble bee

I know you are only venting….so I wont offer any excuses for their behavior.

*big big big hugs*

 

I hope it gets better.

Post # 6
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9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

First off, (( HUGS ))

Cause I know that this is a HUGE PITB for you !!

I’m not going to give you miles of recommendations… only one

You said…

Sometimes I just don’t feel like dealing with it anymore.

So don’t. 

There is no written rule that grown adult children need to continue to keep themselves in unhealthy over-the-top dramatic / traumatic relationships.

Getting married is a perfect time to cut the cord permanently !!

Something to consider.

 

Post # 10
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7 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I feel like our FMIL’s are the same person..no joke at all. This is pretty much how she acts and it is really starting to bother me. My fiance has stood up to her before but she always turned it around to make HIM look like the bad person and make him feel bad.. I just dont know what to do about it but I wish you the best of luck, because I definitely feel your pain! 

Post # 12
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7 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@littlegreenleaf: Well that’s terrible, at least he has you! I wish the best of luck to him today! 

Post # 13
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570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

You guys should go abroad and get going with your lives… his mother will always try to hold you back because it keeps you around. Keep her at a distance, don’t tell her personal details, and move on with your lives.

 

Post # 14
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Ick. So sorry you and Fiance have to deal with this. I definitely think you should block her. Just because this woman squeezed your Fiance out of her vagina doesn’t give her the right to verbally and emotionally abuse you. (Or him, but he’s going to have to come to that himself.)

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