(Closed) need to vent about future sister in law

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

wow.  she sounds fun.  

sometimes it’s nice just to rant.  i know it makes me feel better.

Post # 4
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

That’s annoying, but it sounds like it’s coming from a place of insecurity.  Keep your head up ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Hmm, sounds a LOT like my SIL.  She is so allergic to pets, but only if she sees them!  She ditched my brother’s 2 wonderful cats on me cause suddenly (after many years) she was horribly allergic.  

Whenever we shave a cat at work (we often do lion-cuts on matted longhaired cats) I am tempted to make her a pillow stuffed with cat fur and see if it even bothers her at all.  It makes me smile just to think about it.

Just ignore her, it sounds like most of the family sees her for what she is.  I would just laugh and tell her not to sniff the flowers.

My SIL’s child once told my that my dogs were shedding hair all over my floor.  I replied that she was shedding dead skin cells all over my floor, but that I still let her inside.  I don’t think she has been to my house since.  What a pity.

Post # 8
487 posts
Helper bee

@edgypeanuts: I laughed so hard at your last paragraph. I agree with you though, the family sees her for her true self.  You have nothing to worry about OP.  You aren’t required to abide by her “rules”.  Have the beautiful wedding you want!

Post # 9
1254 posts
Bumble bee

If you only serve the food she can’t eat, have cake with sugar, have all types of flowers except roses and include your pets in the wedding party, does that mean she doesn’t get to come?? SWEET!!! Sounds like a better deal to me ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 10
1765 posts
Buzzing bee


Maybe if you plan things just right she and her “darling” children will be just too allergic to your wedding that they won’t be able to make it. That would be too bad ๐Ÿ˜‰ Actually maybe you want to not have children present at your wedding or reception. Perhaps your venue doesn’t have enough room???

Post # 11
1765 posts
Buzzing bee


Sounds like a great plan if I ever saw one!!! We are definitely on the same wavelength! LOL ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 12
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i would definitely limit what access she has to your facebook page. 

Post # 14
151 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Sorry you’re dealing with this!

She sounds really jealous!

Post # 15
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I hope you are not doing anything she recommends.

I wouldn’t even talk to this woman if I were you, because she is obviously getting on your last nerve.

Post # 16
1871 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Man, I hope you’re not following her requests! What a PITA.

Yes, avoid this lady at all costs, if for nothing else but your sanity. And plan your wedding as YOU want it–forget her.

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