(Closed) need to vent about future sister in law

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’ve been thinking about this (slow day today) who in their right mind demands a bride order her wedding cake a specific way because of her kids??  I can’t believe there are actually people like this in the world!!!!!

Post # 34
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1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

🙂  glad I can lighten things up.  As an aside, you’re getting married on my birthday!  It’s only right, then, that as your gift to me you poke this ridiculous excuse for a woman with a stick the entire day and night by making sure everything she hates is provided in abundance.

Post # 35
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13561 posts
Honey Beekeeper

This is really pathetic, considering your Future Sister-In-Law must be a grown woman to have children. Despite that fact, she herself is acting like a child.

Unfortunately, she comes with the family. So honestly, I’d avoid her when possible and remain civil when you have to see her/talk to her. But I’d disregard all of her wedding “input.” It’s not her day, after all.

Post # 37
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9024 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

no offense but she sounds loopy.. and she just wants to feel important by making weird requests so she can later boast that you made those decisions around her needs. I say just nod along when she talks [just to keep the peace] but completely ignore her when it comes to actualy decision making… choose whatever flowes you want and whatever cake you want.. how dare she ask you to make your entire cake sugar free just so her kids can have some.. how much cake can kids eat anyway? thats the silliest thing i’ve ever heard

Post # 38
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ugh.. Sister in laws can be soo annoying sometimes.. my Future Sister-In-Law has crossed the line soo many times..  I hope you dont cater to her.. Please dont limit yourself to what she says you can only have.. it’s YOUR wedding.. I agree with the other bees,, get the most sugary cake.. get flowers that arent roses, and tell her to wear a surgical mask if it bothers her.

 

Post # 39
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1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

as someone with actual food allergies, I would never demand someone change everything just so I can have a piece of their cake! Seriously, cake is not essential to me and I would never get upset if I couldnt eat it!

Just ignore her I say… who needs that drama in your life!

Post # 40
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2495 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

oh my word.  I completely agree with everyone else.  This is pathetic and I am really glad that you and everyone else in your family can just see what’s really going on and ignore it…. along with half of her allergies.

You could always suddenly develop terrible amnesia… “oh… so sorry Future Sister-In-Law… I totally forgot you are allergic to any non-rose flowers and my ring-bearer dog and the cake… and the whole wedding, actually.  Can someone get you and all of your children home before you go into anaphalactic shock?” 🙂

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