(Closed) Need to vent about his rude sister!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

You don’t sound crazy, this sounds like a lot of drama.  Enjoy your day with your FH.  I just hope you Future Sister-In-Law doesn’t live to regret her decision.

Post # 5
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8364 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@nhoh:  Sorry i am confused? If you are eloping then guests aren’t invited or have you already married and are now having a second event?

Post # 7
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547 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@nhoh:  Holy cow. I am so sorry.  That is beyond selfish, mean, and horrible of them. 

Post # 8
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8364 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

So it is just a wedding celebration party then and not a wedding with a ceremony? maybe they don’t think it is as important because it isn’t an actual wedding (some people think that way) or maybe they are upset about the whole situation. Not excusing their behaviour but try to se what their problem might be.

Did you call them to chase their RSVP once the deadline had passed? Because the B&G are supposed to do that.

Post # 10
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663 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ugh, what a PITA. Having a baby is no excuse. My sister was three months pregnant when I got engaged and she’s in my wedding party. When figuring out the date she just requested we wait till she had the baby, (which I’m glad we did because my Fiance wanted to get married in May and if I had to do that I would have killed myself LOL) and so we went with September 15th (my niece was born June 28th). Having the baby at the wedding isn’t even an issue, we’ve even got her a special dress to wear. I hope everything works out for you hon!

Post # 11
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Busy bee

WTF I would be sooooooooo pissed!!  Omg, you change the date for her and then now friends can’t come and she doesn’t bother to come?!  I would be livid.  My friend is coming and she’ll have a 1 month old at the wedding!  She was going to come even if the baby was born when it should’ve been which is 2 weeks before the wedding.

Post # 12
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569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You don’t sound crazy. This is beyond rude. 

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper

@nhoh:  You need to be forceful and say that it is now x amount of time past the RSVP deadline and if they can’t let you know by (give them a few hours) then you will have to mark them down as a decline.

I think there is probably more to the story then we are being told but they are being rude by not RSVPing.

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I assume you are allowing them to bring the baby? Because babysitting is not a realistic option at that age. Just a thought. EDIT: Sorry, I missed the post that said baby is welcome.

Otherwise, she is bring very rude. I suggest phoning her yourself and asking if they’re coming. Even better, get your husband to phone, because she’s his sister.

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