(Closed) Need to vent… another 2 month wait!!!!!!!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2742 posts
Sugar bee

@dreamingofbling: Ha ha, don’t know what to say but at least you do know he has the ring right? Waiting is a killer but ehn, give the guy a couple more months, it’ll be January before you know it. I hope he gives you in January but he may surprise you and give you for Xmas 🙂

Post # 4
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@dreamingofbling: break the days down. 2 months can turn into 60 days or 8 weeks. That way you can mark them off and see the time getting closer and closer!

Post # 5
3 posts
  • Wedding: August 2011

@dreamingofbling I think you should try and wait it out until he proposes. He is obviously trying to make it as special as can be. The time will fly by. Just make sure you don’t go snooping around the house for the ring because he wants to see the look on your face the FIRST time you see it.

Post # 7
1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I found out after my Fiance proposed that he had the ring for 6 WEEKS!  6 WEEKS!!!  I told him he’s lucky I didn’t know he already had it or I would’ve killed him.  Patience is NOT a virtue I possess.

I suggest thinking of it in weekly increments. 8 weeks seems a lot shorter than 60 whole days.  Each Monday thnk “only 7 more!” “only 6 more!” ect, ect.  It helps.

Post # 8
2317 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I agree break it up in weekly increments and do something new and exciting each week ( try out new recipes, make a girls date, spa, and of course save a trip to the manicurist for the last week in preparation for something sparkly!)

Post # 9
1892 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@dreamingofbling: Darling Husband waited for 3 months until he proposed. He told me the day he bought the ring that he had gotten it and couldn’t wait to give it to me because he wanted to tell me all about his shopping experience…3 months later he finally proposed!

Try to break the weeks up and let him propose on his own time. Chances are he already has something planned and that is why he is waiting! Good luck. The time will come before you know it!!

Post # 10
1088 posts
Bumble bee

Maybe he wants to be sneaky and make you THINK he won’t propose until January.  This way you won’t question him too much and accidently find out his surprise!

Post # 12
47 posts


3 months???  Did he tell you why he waited 3 months?  Do any of the men ever confess why they wait after they have the ring (if the woman knows or not)?  I WANT TO KNOW!!!


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