(Closed) NEED TO VENT. Big time scheduling conflicts.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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92 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s a tough one, however a compromise is a compromise. Therefore, I would attend my friends’ weddings and explain to your future brother-in-law the reasoning behind this. Also, if the date conflict had already been explained to your Brother-In-Law and he didn’t care enough to make an effort to try to change the date, why should you….

Post # 4
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159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow that sucks. Well I would say that since you are both committed to other weddings, and you made it clear to them (the brothers) that you were not available, you should honor your commitments. I would say that if it is so important for you to be at the brothers’ weddings they should have picked a different day. They made the decison for you, so it sucks for them.

Post # 5
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh! That is so annoying, especially since you were proactive and let them know in advance. I guess some people really don’t get that it’s not all about them.

(I guess the flip is that there are limited dates available for weddings, but come on…)

I would be majorly peeved. 

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