- 9 years ago
- Wedding: April 2010
Little history here. We’ve already thrown the bride a couples’ shower. This Bridesmaid or Best Man was stressful to work with. The party was at her house and she made such a big deal over having it there. She has to clean, do the yard, etc. etc. Then why offer your house if your going to complain? So the party comes and goes and I’m like thank you no more hearing her complain! Oh and she tells the bride that she should get a bigger present then the rest of us because we are having the party at her house. Excuse me? We all paid the same amount of $$ to host the party and I got linens, silverware, tables and chairs, centerpieces from my families wedding supplies and brought them over. Ahhh!!!
So now we are planning the Bach party. I’m the Maid/Matron of Honor. So I emailed the girls asking them how much they were willing to spend on hotel rooms. I had found this cool special at a hotel that included champange in the room, pool-side cabana and a spa special for the bride.
This Bridesmaid or Best Man emailed me back and told me that she was willing to spend whatever and that the package sounded like a good deal.
I just got a call from the Bride. She said the Bridesmaid or Best Man called her last night and told her that she is asking too much of us girls by having the package. So the bride is upset because 1) she didn’t want to know all the details of her party and 2) she got the 3rd degree from this girl for something she knew nothing about.
I’m frustrated that she would go and blab all the details to the bride and tell me that she that my idea was a good one.
I just emailed the Bm and told her I didnt’ appreciate her telling the bride the details and to not tell her any more of the details. I said that I’m not mad just want to keep things underwraps.
Of course she has replied back that she is offended that I would get on to her and that she didn’t know it was a surprise. Well it isn’t 100% a surprise party the bride suggested the city to go to. But what I’m mad about it is telling the bride that she is being ungrateful.
I just don’t get why there always has to been one girl ruining things for the bride.