(Closed) Need to Vent. I'm about to blow up!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
771 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Whitney1025:  No one cares about your wedding as much as you and your future spouse do.  Think about it… a wedding is a party to celebrate the joining of YOUR lives.  It’s sacred to you. But to everyone else, it’s a chance to party.  Sure it’s great to witness such a blessed act between two people.  But it’s never going to be AS exciting, AS special, AS romantic as it is to you.

And trust me, when your wedding day actually arrives, spot light is on you.  Not your cousins, not the flower girl, not the bridesmaids, etc.  The day will come, everyone will tell you how beautiful you look and how much they love your dress.  You will the IT girl that day.  And most importantly, YOU WILL BE MARRIED!!! 

Let this other stuff go.  Really, it sounds like the stress of planning is manifesting in these irrational thoughts you have.  Don’t exacerbate an already stressful time by worrying about this nonsense!

Post # 4
Member
2321 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

The most important part about your wedding is not who all are excited about it. It’s about you and your Fiance becoming one. Starting a new life together and building a strong marriage. SO focus on that. Everyone else’s excitement isn’t and shouldn’t be your focus. Just your FI’s and your own. 

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