- 6 years ago
So this is pretty silly and I’m a bit embarrassed to even admit this, but I just want some rational words to bring me back to my logical self! Fiance and I are going camping next weekend with a group of friends. I’m excited…. BUT, there’s going to be this girl there that Fiance once had a little fling with. This was years and years ago (way before Fiance and I even knew each other). Also, she’s been friends with these people for years. I’ve met her once before (she’s very nice) and the ‘fling’ that Fiance and her had was one drunken night back in first year of college. He doesn’t even remember what happened, and nothing progressed with them afterwards. They both just kind of laughed it off and remained sharing the same mutual friends. They never hang out, I have nothing to be even remotely worried about, but I know she will be there this weekend. I suppose I’m just nervous that I’m going to behave funny. Y’know how you start thinking things in your head (imaginging that they had a drunken night together), and it makes you act differently? How do I make sure that that doesn’t happen because I don’t want to be the crazy girl that gets herself upset about something that is so ridiculous! Geez, even as I write this I sound crazy! lol. I’m not worried about anything NOW, but just thinking about the past. It’s awkward being in situations with exes, or ex-flings.