(Closed) Need your help Bees, what should I do?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Why would they be mad?  As long as you aren’t waking them up and there aren’t any important plans that night, you should go!

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’d go to the concert.  It will just make you a few hours later and you still get to spend the whole weekend with them.  If they get pissed about that, I honestly wouldn’t care about keeping them happy.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Go to the concert!  If they gripe when you get there, just emphasize how happy you are to have the whole weekend ahead to spend with them 😉

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It seems like the best of both worlds. You’ll still be able to spend the entire weekend at the Beach House with the IL and see this concert you’ve been dying to see! (Which one is it, if you don’t mind me bein nosey)! Haha.

It’s nothing for them to get worked up and be pissed about unless you all already have plans Thursday night.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

I don’t see why they would be mad, you’d only get there 4 hours later. It’s not like the concert is Friday night and you wouldn’t cut your visit short by a full day.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Do they have specific plans for everyone that Thursday evening, or does it just happen to be the time that they’re heading up? I think it would make total sense to say it was a great deal to go to the concert on the way. If you’ve already agreed to, say, a nice dinner together the first night at the beach, though, it would be different.

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

WHY do you have to give it up?? I don’t understand…its not like there are plans that night, what difference does it make if you are there a couple hours later? You would probably get there just to go to sleep anyway

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