(Closed) Need your opinion

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3754 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Hmmm that’s tricky. If it were just the two of them then I would say hey don’t judgewell it’s her life, but the fact that they are rushing into a marriage with kids involved on both sides does seem a bit irresponsible to me. I don’t blame you for being concerned. However, I don’t think there is really anything you can do. I would just try to be as supportive as possible.

:-/

Post # 4
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553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I can definitely understand your concern, I’d be concerned too. Try to just be supportive, I guess, because otherwise it will drive a wedge in your friendship. Not much you can do…maybe her family will suggest she waits. Sometimes these things work out, so who are we to say otherwise?

She is probably jumping to the conclusion that you are actually mad she’s “stealing your thunder” because she doesn’t see anything wrong with their decision. You probably definitely want to clear this up with her, but just say you were actually just surprised at how fast their relationship was moving, but you are glad she has found the man of her dreams, and leave it at that.

Post # 7
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553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@beeandrashid:  Alright! 1 point for me on good advice. woot!

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