(Closed) Needing a little boost!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I can understand hitting the wedding wall.  My wedding is Friday and I hit that wall a couple weeks ago.  The whole bride thing hasn’t hit me yet either.  Even getting my whole “look” together I didn’t get emotional or anything.  It’s really weird.  I do keep getting the moments where I’m all “holy crap I’m getting married in a week” and then it goes away quickly.  I have a feeling I’m going to end up being a wreck on Friday. 

As much as you don’t want to do anything wedding related, work on something, even if it’s small.  You don’t want to be overwhelmed the week of.

Good luck!

Post # 4
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212 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Hugs for you and I will keep you in my prayers. So sorry you are going through these things. I believe things will get better and be alright and when your wedding day arrives, try to remember the point of it all is that you get to marry to greatest love of your life. I know it must be hard but try to stay focused on that and push through 🙂 

Post # 5
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9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

That’s awful.  Take a few days off from planning for some needed time to grieve and don’t feel bad about it.  I know 18 days is going to fly by but trying to work yourself through the grief while wedding planning is only going to make it take longer.  You don’t have to get over his death in the next 18 days.  Give yourself a day or two off from planning and then dive back in, maybe plan something special to commemorate your friend’s life that way you feel like he was still a part of your day.

Post # 6
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260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

You definitely have a lot going on and losing a close friend who would be at your wedding must be so difficult. Take some time for yourself if you can just to grieve. I’m sure once your big days arrives it will hit you and besides everyone feels things differently!! 

Post # 8
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86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

i am sorry to hear for your loss and i won’t say i udnerstand what you’re going through because i don’t. just try to be strong and realize that god wouldn’t put you through anything you cant handle. you seem to be very strong in how your dealing with this, so continue that. use your day of love for you and your fiance and also a celebration for your friend who passed. it might help if you plan a way to honor his memory on your day, it might bring you some happy feelings that you can continue to talk about and plan until your big day! good luck! 

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