- 6 years ago
He and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year and have a ring setting already with the intent to purchase a stone and of corse a proposal in the near future. With that being said we have a lot of love and chemistry together a s share the same future goals and connect with some of the same hardships in childhood ( both had to deal with deaths of parents and not the best role models) the problem is we bicker every other day about silly issues like me feeling like other things are more important than me and our relationship. Although he cooks dinner fir us everynight and takes control over the cleaning and laundry we havent been on a date in months…and i ask its always next week or im broke. Also, we live with 3 other guys and they are all single and sometimes I feel like he gives the attractive girl walking by that they all stare at more attention than me ( and they do this right in front of me!) I’ll be the first to admit I have insecurities that I may be over reactive about. I know it’s his personality and he would never cheat but 1. There’s a limit and 2. Never say never. I was in aprevious 5 year relationship from 16 to 21 years old and I was broken up with over the phone and I think that my abandonment issues rolled over into this new relationship. I brought up couples counciing and he agreed. But does being in the position to feel like we need it mean we are not meant to be? Overall he is anamazing man with a huge heart and amazing personality that I would love to be with except for a few little tweaks that may be really beneficial.