Post # 1
i’m not sure if this is the right board, we arent currently ttc (the plan is to start in January) but we’re currently using nfp, i wasnt too sure this cycle if i had already past my peak day (which is the days to avoid if u dont want to achieve pregnancy) so we took a chance anyway, i’m about 2 days late and its been on my mind for the last week so I got a test to ease my mind (i got baby fever BAD)…anyway the result was negative 🙁
i know i shouldnt be sad because we arent trying but a part of me was really hoping i was pregnant, i have such mixed emotions:(
anyone else feel that way and how do u handle it? i know i only have a couple more months to wait before we ttc, but i feel like every month that passes i do this to myself, where i get a little disappointed when i get my period.
Post # 3
Everytime I get a negative I get sad too. But the next day I try to look at the bigger picture. Maybe god is sparing me from a MS or maybe things will change w my job or maybe I have to travel somewhere first. Before I have this baby.
Good Luck and Baby Dust hun <3
Post # 4
I think your feelinngs are completely normal!! I’m sorry you’re feeling so down. Your time will come soon.
Post # 5
@CircleFace: Getting pregnant is hard. Don’t feel bad. When you start trying for real, it’ll happen 🙂
Post # 6
@CircleFace: I understand how you feel, it’s something we want now but there are reasons that we are waiting. It helps to me think that waiting a few months/or a month (depends on some news I receive) will make the actual moment that much more special.
It has helped me to begin charting and getting ready, that way when I get the news I am waiting for I will have a month or two of experience behind me and know more of what I am doing when it is time to TTC again.
It helps to do things with hubby and family to get my mind off it, also the news I am waiting for wouldn’t be bad in anyway so trying to concentrate my efforts to helping others in the bee and trying not to rush life! Hope this helps!
Post # 7
I understand how you feel I took a pt today and it was negative…Darling Husband and I said that we would not obsess about it, that we would be mindfully that it is a possibility that we could conceive this month, next month etc. o I am going to try not to focus so much on trying because I am going insane…lol
Post # 8
Thanks for the support bees, i feel better and will try to focus on the positive of waiting 🙂