(Closed) Nerves

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Are you nervous about the planning part, or the actual wedding day (like being in front of people), or the fact that you’re spending the rest of your life with one person, or maybe a little bit of everything?  

Post # 4
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1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think men think too short term to get nervous attacks this far out doll. He’ll be the one white faced and sweaty the day of!

All I can say is, have you real, solid reason to feel unsure, or is this just jitters? I did start dreaming of decade ago exes soon after getting engaged, I’m sure it’s some sort of subconscious way of processing the whole thing.

I don’t know how you go about figuring out if you are making the right decision: pray, talk, think a lot, make lists of how great you are together?

Best of luck with it!

Post # 6
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1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

That’s rough!  You still have a bit of time before the wedding, so maybe you can try to just focus on your relationship with your Fiance for a little bit and that will help you feel more secure with the “this is forever” idea.  

I felt really overwhelmed at the beginning of planning my wedding, but I realized that I justed needed to do things on my own time – I didn’t plan anything for quite a few months after getting engaged, and eventually decided that I wanted to look at venues, then the cake, etc.  I basically handled only one task at a time though (which was unusual for me – I usually multi-task a lot in my normal life.)  The planning isn’t so hard when you only focus on a small part at one time.  For me, I got less anxious with time when I started to see how everything was coming together.  Also, I never let myself believe that “it’s my wedding day and everything has to be perfect.”  There will always be a few things that go wrong, no matter how much you try to prevent that from happening.  Everything will be okay!

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