(Closed) Nervous?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@irishphoenix:  I’m actually nervous that he’s gonna propose without Dad’s blessing, and then I’m gonna have to turn him down until he clears that up lol… I’ve had 3 dreams about it already lol

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m nervous because I don’t really want to plan a wedding! I’m stressed out just thinking about it! I will definitely want to be engaged for a few months before attempting to make any solid plans. Give it time to sink in and all. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@irishphoenix:  I’ve told him… several times. But he didn’t want to at first, he thinks it’s very old fashioned… but my Dad is old fashioned lol so he knows but I still fear he’s not going to ask lol even though he has never let me down lol

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

Totally anxious…!!  I just want it to happen already!  Tomorrow we are going to my parents’ and he is going to “ask” them while I’m getting a haircut (he asked me to arrange it! I was like “shouldn’t you do that on your own…”) after that, I know I will be expecting it every single day LoL.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I read an article on Offbeat Bride not too long ago about how getting proposed to is really awkward and ever since then I’ve been having these weird thoughts about how I’ll have some strange reaction! I think all of us Bees who’ve been waiting want to have an amazing proposal moment and thinking that I might not know what to do freaks me out!

Post # 9
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m anxious mostly because I know that my SO and I want completely different things for our wedding. I want to go to the courthouse and have a picnic for our friends and family after so we can save money for a house and he wants a big wedding. I know we’ll work it out but it makes me anxious to think that I might have to plan a giant wedding Undecided 

But I’m very excited to be his fiancee and spend the rest of my life with this wonderful man!

Post # 10
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339 posts
Helper bee

Yes! I am nervous too!  I’m not someone who is overly excitable on the outside (jumping, screaming, etc) so he shouldn’t expect anything crazy! But he needs to know how much it really means to me so I’m gonna work on being more outward with my excitement ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m glad I’m not the only one!

I’m super nervous! My SO isn’t overly romantic but he also knows that (unfortunately) I have really high expectations (not just in this area – in all areas of my life). We’ve talked a lot about how neither of us can really picture how the proposal is going to go down b/c of his lack of romance. Luckily, we agree on a few details: nothing in an overtly public space, nothing in front of our families and no requesting my father’s blessing (totally get it for other ladies – just not my thing). I try to balance my high expectations with the knowledge that I’d be perfectly happy with it happening right now while I’m grungy and in my PJs.

Because we’ve talked about it more than once, I’m nervous that when it DOES happen I’m going to be all in my head or he’s going to be all nervous and that’s no bueno. 

My recently married friend says that whatever happens, no matter your nervousness or high expectaions, it will be perfect. That’s been some really good advice for me to keep in mind.

And I know I will be lame no matter what ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

I am actually really nervous I’m going to faint! I’ve never fainted before, but one time when I thought he was proposing I got super dizzy and disoriented. To be fair I was freaking out because it would have been WAY too soon. As long as I stay conscious I’ll be fine. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

ooh ooh! me me! i’m just to the point where i want to know how it’s going to “end” like you said. how will he do it? will he have a ring? what will the ring look like? will i like it? will i be able to say yes right away? will i get the post engagement dread? a;sedoiawelkajs;dlv so many variables!

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