(Closed) nervous

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Um… he’s getting it resized. That’s what I think. What else is there to think?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

@Jupiter12:  Why would you think he’s going to keep it? Has he given you reason to think that way?

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Umm, go with him to the store and get sized? Or maybe he’s upgrading it as a surprise? Sorry I find it kind of odd you would think he was keeping it….

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

@Jupiter12:  Yes but who on earth would you think he would even want the ring back? That’s not a good sign. Maybe you need to have a lil chat with him?

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

OP, can we please get some relationship background here? I agree that it seems incredibly strange for your mind to go there, but there must be a reason. Have you two been fighting? Did you have to talk him into proposing when he didn’t seem ready? Was there other external pressure? What’s making you think him keeping the ring is a possibility? 

 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Not to sound harsh, but I think you and your Fiance have a lot more to discuss than if he’s giving you the ring back. I know you didn’t ask for relationship advice, so I won’t give it.  So to answer your question, I think he just wants to resize it. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

So you basically ultimatum-ed him into proposing and now you’re worried that he wasn’t actually ready and is going to bail out?

 

Life lesson: trying to control people never works out. 

 

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