Post # 31
Is she a competitive person? Would it be out of the realm of possibility here that she secretly wants to “beat you to it” and get to be a mum first? Did you get engaged before her and have a wedding before her and this is her way of trying to get you to put off trying to start a familly while she and her husband are avidly TTC just so she can have a baby before you can?
I just think it is beyond all comprehension for a friend to invite herself into your bedroom and tell you when you and your husband can stop using contraceptives.
Post # 32
This is absolute nonsense and I’m saying this as a cfbc woman. How on earth is it normal for her to think she gets a say in your family planning? It has nothing to do with her. Plus you’re only 10 weeks pregnant so she has plenty of calm months ahead of her (although I really don’t see how your child will make her life hectic).
Post # 33
How old are you guys? Not to be mean but this sounds incredibly childish… share the news, and if she’s not happy for you then drop her as a friend.
Post # 34
I’m dying to hear how your friend reacts. She either needs some serious boundaries as she apparently thinks she can control your life, or she’s full of shit and doesn’t want you to beat her to the punch.
Post # 35
betting she just didn’t want you to beat her to the punch.
Post # 37
- Wedding: August 2019 - City, State
Oh my gosh everyone! I didn’t realize this blew up! Here’s my update:
I told them. I waited for the right opportunity to let them know and they were absolutely, overwhelmingly thrilled. Jumping up and down, hugs, excitement. Immediately asked to see my ultrasound.
Maybe I was reading to much into the comments were made, or maybe the excitement and realness made it not matter, but it turned out to be great and really added to my excitement for my pregnancy!
And a special thanks to everyone who wished me well and offered congratulations!
Post # 38
That’s wonderful! I’m so happy it went well! Congratulations, again, and I hope you have a happy, healthy 9 months <3
Post # 39
great update! That must be such a relief for you not having that worry 🙂 congratulations again.