(Closed) nervous about wedding/shower,etc…….please read:(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
648 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh goodness hun! That’s a lot to worry over. I know how it feels to be shy and nervous about social situations, I’ve been that way my whole life. My Fiance have gotten into fights before because I don’t like walking into parties or bars by myself and then having to search for him or if he wants me to wait on him to show up. I get so stressed that I’ve broken out into tears before.

I’m not this way all the time and actually I have no problem going up to a complete stranger in a store or whatever and asking for help or talking with random people in town. I’ve worked retail and as a waitress before. Heck, I can travel the country by myself and be perfectly fine.

I would go through with the shower because it probably won’t be as bad as you think. My Fiance family threw a baby shower for me where the guests were their family and friends, people I hardly talk to, but it ended up ok. I was lucky that a football game was on and they are big fans; so we ate, did presents, and watched the game. I would also apoligize to the Bridesmaid or Best Man. She’s just trying to be nice and probably wanted a formal count for food or whatever.

I know the check list is crazy and can seem endless, but I know you can do it. You’ve made it this far! I’m paying and planning for the whole wedding by myself so I feel a little overwhelmed sometimes too. Fiance keeps asking what things cost and I keep saying why does it matter? you aren’t paying, I just want to know if you like this. My parents won’t pay for anything for anyone and FI’s money pays the bills. He can afford some and I’ll probably have him do more of the honeymoon type thing because that’s what he’s interested in.

There’s probably more I could add, but I’m going to sum it up with a big I KNOW YOU CAN DO THIS! I think the day of you will be so happy and busy that you won’t notice the whole center of attention thing so much. Not to mention, people won’t exactly be staring at you the whole time, they’ll be having conversations and eating… It will be ok. Good luck. Try to have some fun.

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