(Closed) Neurotic about relationship

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
9688 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@OneOfTheseDaysAlice:    ((HUGS)) 

Breathe . . .

A wise person once told me that as soon as you feel very safe and loved in a relationship all sorts of things will begin to crop up from the depths of your psyche.

It’s a cleansing and adjustment process.  A healing process.

Tell your SO that what you’re going through is a sign that you love and trust him in a most exceptional way.  Because you unconditionally love each other.

You’re not going to ruin anything.  I feel it (and I know these things).  🙂

Post # 4
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

when you express your feelings of hurt to him, are you using “i feel” statements? for example instead of “why would you say such a horrible thing to me! i thought you loved me!!” turns into “i feel hurt by what you just said.” i think that might help because it turns the conversation to a more emotional level since all you’re saying how you feel, and it also sounds less critical. that has really helped me in the past.

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