(Closed) Never felt left behind before…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@atalante:  ((((HUGS)))) It can be so frustrating to feel “left behind.”  However, you mentioned the key to your situation in your post: We want a kid. When we’re financially stable enough to have one.

Take comfort in the fact that you are with someone who is wonderful, and that the two of you are on the same page.  As much as it might hurt to not be a part of the “club,” it will be so much more wonderful when you do join the club and are ready to. 

Post # 5
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454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@atalante:  Ahhh, posting on WB and then getting a good night’s rest = best feel-better remedy EVER! 🙂

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Don’t take it personally. They’re saying it to be inclusive.

When Fiance and I got engaged, our married friend told Fiance “Welcome to the club.  The decoder ring is in the mail.”

I thought it was super cute but I don’t think it is meant to offend anyone that isn’t engaged.  I think sometimes we’ve got to step back and be a little less sensative.  Your feelings are totally valid but I think this is a case where your head needs to rule over the heart.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@atalante:  I know how you feel.  *hugs*

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