Never have I ever….couples edition!

posted 6 months ago in The Lounge
Post # 16
588 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

We have been together 5 years and only just slow danced together for the first time two weeks ago at a wedding! 

Post # 17
882 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

My husband and I have never been to a club together lol barely a bar 

Post # 18
784 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018 - UK

We’ve been together over 7 years, and we’ve never flown or been on holiday together. I have medical issues which make travel difficult. The furthest we’ve been is around a 3 hour drive. He travelled a huge amount with work for years before we met, so he’s had the opportunity to go all over the world and doesn’t mind not being able to do so any more.

 I wish we could go more places. The worst is when people ask where we’re going on holiday and I have to continually say we’re going nowhere, or going to London for a few days, or taking some day trips. You’d be amazed how much side eye I get from people who don’t know my situation. We got SO many shitty comments and jokes about the fact that our honeymoon was in the UK.

Also, the only time we’ve ever danced together was the first dance at our wedding.

Post # 19
927 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2019 - Turkey

My fiance is originally from the same town as my mom, which is like only 1.5 hours by car. We’ve been together for 1.5 years and getting married in two weeks but we’ve never been to his hometown together yet.


Post # 20
1027 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2019 - City, State

I’m gonna be boring and say….Fiance & I have never shared a drink together. He only likes whiskey and I can’t stand it, so we have never had the same drink together before.

Post # 21
871 posts
Busy bee

This is going to sound weird (lol and actually we probably are weird) but my husband and I (together for 8 years, married for 3) have never gone to bed or gotten up at the same time. As in, like, not once. He’s a total night owl, I get up insanely early. It’s not just work schedules and other responsibilities, even on days off or on vacation, I think our circadian rhythms are just polar opposites. 

Post # 22
72 posts
Worker bee

I’ll play. I have two that I can think of. 


I have never met any of SO’s extended family. We’ve been together 3 years. He has an Aunt that lives far away and the only time she was in our area during our relationship I happened to be out of town. He does have a lot of Aunts, Uncles and cousins nearby but they stopped spending time with them years ago because of pretty significant religious differences (think of a modern, progressive and liberal family going to have Thanksgiving dinner with their cousins… the Duggars). His parents do have a lot of chosen family with some life long friendships. There are family friends at all of their holiday dinners. 

SO and I did not have a proposal. We planned our future together over time just by talking about what we wanted and when we wanted it. Eventually we were just planning the wedding. So we just naturally transitioned from “if we get married” to “when we get married” to “here is the deposit for the venue”. We were going to make a big announcement but eventually so many of our close friends and family knew we were already planning so here we are. I kind of love it this way, it’s very us. 

Post # 23
81 posts
Worker bee

Kind of random but we have never been to my husband’s favorite restaurant together. It is kind of famous and in his hometown, which we have visited several times and many had plans to go but it has not once happened in the 13 years we have known each other. He has been in that time but only on visits without me. I tell him that it’s a conspiracy and it does not actually exist!

Post # 24
2142 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2019

weddingmaven :  We have also never been camping together, and he is a BIG camper! He has been on a lot of solo camps, but we just haven’t had the opportunity to do it together yet. 

Post # 25
2497 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We’ve never danced together, either! Married almost 7 years, been togehter for 12+ years. I don’t dance in public as I have ZERO rythym; I dance in the kitchen when I’m cooking and no one else is home. Just me and the pups. 

Post # 26
1300 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

We’ve never been to a wedding together! 3 years and our own wedding will be the first one we’ll attend together lol.

Post # 28
445 posts
Helper bee

I’m in the same never having driven together club! But we met (and I currently still live in) a very large city where nobody drives – myself included.

Also, never have we ever been to another country together, even though we both have traveled extensively overseas. We’re trying to remedy that by the end of the summer, though.

Post # 29
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

This is tough, Darling Husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for almost one and I had trouble thinking of things we haven’t done together so my list is kind of blah.

Never gone out together drinkings/to a party and had to call for a ride home. Yes, we go out but usually one of us is Dear Daughter or one of us doesn’t drink as much/stops drinking way before we have to leave. OR we used to just crash at whatever friend’s house the party was at. Our wedding night is an exception because we straight up didn’t have vehicles so ILs drove us home, and I don’t count being in Vegas and calling an Uber when we used Uber as our transportation anyways, lol.

Never have been to a hometown hockey game together. FYI, our team just won the Stanley Cup 😉 We’ve been to the games separately (been to our baseball team’s games together PLENTY) but never a hockey game together so that is on our to-do list when next hockey season rolls around.

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