(Closed) Never thought I would have dress regret…

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
11352 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

Your dress is beautiful.

I’m so sorry that you are experiencing dress regret. Honestly, so many of us have experienced it, including me. (I was not a member of Weddingbee until after I was already married, and I had never even seen “Say Yes to the Dress” until after my wedding.  Once I saw my own wedding pictures, I began to have dress regret, and then, once I saw all of these other amazing gowns, I really struggled with it.)

However, I finally realized that I made the best choice I could have given the options that I knew about at the time I selected my dress, and I ended up loving my gown in my wedding video, since I could really see the amazing sparkle of all the bling on the bodice.

Try not to focus on your regret, since, as you said, getting another gown is not an option at this point.  I’m sure you will look gorgeous on your wedding day, and your FI/DH will love the way that you look.

Post # 4
2778 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Your dress looks fine. So what if its not his ideal, you yourself are.

I’m sure it’ll all be fine in the end. πŸ™‚

Post # 5
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It’s a beautiful dress and is SO flattering on you! Once you get all the accessories on and your hubby sees you he’ll probably think much differently! Tell him the cleavage will be for his eyes only on the wedding night Wink

Post # 6
577 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

That dress is STUNNING on you. I like it better on you than on the model.

And c’mon, it’s a WEDDING DRESS! You don’t need to be able to see boobies. Pack a sexy neglige in your suitcase for the wedding night and everyone is happy. πŸ™‚

Post # 8
577 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013


Oh my god what is that picture from? Lol!

And I know how you feel. My fiance is definitely a boob man.

Post # 9
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

LMAO if you get a cleavage like the woman of the pic right up, nobody would look at your face, less your Fiance… Ithink you look great in that dress, my Fiance also told me last week HE DOESN’T like princess’s ballgowns (which I LOVE).. And so I bought my princessy ballgown for my wedding dscuzzy honestly, I’d love to wear what he want me to but I wouldn’t love how I looked… So, stick with what you want, he’ll love u anyways πŸ™‚

Post # 11
23607 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

You look GORGEOUS!

Post # 12
148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@kayrie95:  Oh gosh, my EYES!!!  LOL! Ewwww, well I guess we all know what a porn star’s wedding dress would look like!  Anyways I think your dress is very elegant.  Your fiance has not seen you in it yet so never mind him!  Men think they know what looks good but let’s face it, we’re the ones with the fashion sense!  Wear that dress proud girl, you look beautiful!

Post # 13
332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@kayrie95:  I totally giggled at the picture you posted ! Boobs much ? lolol

Anyway, don’t worry, your fiancé will think you’re stunning on your wedding day I’m sure ! I mean, you look beautiful in your dress so take a deep breath and get some dress lovin’ ! πŸ˜‰

Keep your chin up !

Post # 14
368 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@kayrie95:  WTF!! No dancing in that dress for sure. It’s like a car crash, I want to look away but I just can’t!

I think you’re dress is lovely. Personally I think covering up more is better. Do you really want your boobs hanging out in front of all your family. I wouldn’t change it. My Fiance could care less what I wear. Typical guy, he has no idea about styles! You’ll look totally beautiful on your big day!

Post # 15
38 posts
  • Wedding: May 2013

You look great in your dress and he will love you in it as well!

Post # 16
83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think you look beautiful in your dress, and lets face it, the photo above is horrendous……I would feel like a hooker in that dress. And also, depending on where you are getting married….(church) its totally disrespectful, of not only the place but your own body.

And if you REALLY love your dress , which you must have because you bought it, and I think you have just been knocked off coarse by his comment…..then you COULD have it both ways, have a sweetheart neckline put in, so that way you have the dress of your dreams, and he gets a little cleavage…..that little section in the middle could be shaped a little without ruining the look of the whole dress.

Personally I think its perfect as it is, its gorgeous on you, but its an option, rather than being unhappy, or changing the dress.

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