(Closed) Never thought I'd Be here…. And now its Decision Time….. Im a mess

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What would you do?????
    Its my ring, i'd send it back to have it fixed a 5th time and pray its right this time : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Tell em to take a Freaking HIke!! ANd give me my money back... Enough is ENOUGH!!! : (34 votes)
    94 %
  • Post # 4
    4714 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1998

    Get your money back….even if they fix that ring you will always have bad memories mixed in with the good….start over and start fresh….good luck ((((((hugs)))))

    Post # 6
    7651 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I guess I don’t understand why your jeweler can’t stamp it as authentic? Sorry.

    Is there any way to talk to a manager? I would talk to him/her, explain the situations, and say that it needs to be taken care of. There has to be someone you can call about this issue. I wouldn’t give up just yet. I know it’s been tough, but its a custom ring, so it is pretty special. I am just having a tough time withthe fact that its been 5 times and you haven’t gotten a manager or someone who has made it a priority.

    Post # 7
    415 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I agree with GelaMac, your ring should be a source of happiness, not a reminder of suckiness.  Will they give it back though? 

    Post # 8
    4714 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1998

    🙂 seriously you have been much more easy going then I would have been gone after screw up #2

    Post # 10
    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    wow.  i think at this point i would find another ring.  pp are right, there is too much negativity with this ring.  you need happy memories.

    keep us updated.

    Post # 12
    5959 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    All jewelers should have in place, coverage for the valuable items left in their care, custody and control for alteration, cleaning or repair….if your appraisal reveals that the ring you’ve been given is not in fact the ring you were sold, the insurance carrier would be able to reimburse you for the purchase price.  Jewelers Block coverage and the dovetailing bailees form that covers the property of others is quite expensive and difficult to obtain due to the valuable nature of the items in their shops, threatening to file a claim with their carrier might just be the “motivation” this designer needs.

    Post # 13
    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    other than the stamp of authenticity, did the jewler say if everything else was in order? If that is all that is wrong (this time) and the gemologist can verify that everything is as it should be, then I would keep the ring. But if anything further happens to it, I would say be done with it and get your money back!

    Post # 14
    746 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    18k stamps can be done by any goldsmith.  just have them do an acid test and stamp it for you.  maybe they buffered the ring so much they lost the stamp

    Post # 15
    3402 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I would be very very upset. I would demand a refund for all of my hardship, and if I wasn’t given it immediately, I would make it clear that I was going to do all sorts of bad PR for them.


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