(Closed) New… and Frustrated :(

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

i understand your frustrations. He is waiting for something….maybe he is saving up the $. Which that is good you dotn want a guy who will just put everything on credit. my Fiance waited until he could fork up the 3000 on it. i appreciate the fact that he took the time and commitment to saving that much money instead of just putting it on credit. that could be the case here…  😀

 

Post # 4
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3252 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Have patience…waiting is hard but it’s worth it in the end. Welcome to the bee.

Post # 5
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3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

It sounds to me like you need to slow down and figure out what you want. I noticed in the way you wrote your post that most of this engagement and moving back home thing was his idea. You are still pretty young and if you aren’t 100% committed to the relationship, its not fair for either one of you to just “settle”.

There’s no rush and there’s no race, so just take you time and talk with him about what you want to do after you graduate college. How do you really feel about being married less than a year from now?

Post # 6
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5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Welcome! I think you’ve found the right place! As hard as it is, be patient and don’t rush. If he feels pressured he may end up waiting longer than planned. I think he has something up his sleeve, though. ; )

Post # 9
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1566 posts
Bumble bee

You’re 22 and you guys have been dating less than a year – what’s the rush? We started talking about marriage on one of our first dates, and he brought it up frequently, but that doesn’t mean I expected a proposal after only a few months. I understand where you’re coming from because I’m your age and I figured out very early on that my Fiance was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. But many women wait for 2,3, 5+ years, and there’s really NO reason for you to be frustrated right now. I would enjoy the relationship and give it time. And once you do get engaged, you could wait a couple of years before the wedding…just a thought 🙂 

Post # 12
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125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@lulu10: if nothing else, this is a great place to vent.  Lots of fellow ladies-in-waiting with sympathetic ears (eyes?). 

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