(Closed) New and need advice!!! Sorry it's so long

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
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  • Post # 3
    Member
    14 posts
    Newbee

    I am in a similar position. My walk out date is jan 7th – our 6 year anniversary. You HAVE to remember to love yourself in all this. If nothing changes, nothing will change. I love my man but it is not ok that because he hasnt asked me to be his forever I don’t feel special or valued. your son has an obviously amazing mother and you need to remember what makes you amazing and special. if your man doesnt want to cling onto that (which you probably will find he does) then you need to be true to yourself. every time we compromise (and believe me I’ve done a lot of that) it damages us. repair your heart by staying firm this time. you don’t have to end it, you just need to stop being a wife when he hasn’t given you that yet. stay strong and and things will change. there are so many ppl on your side. I’m going to be going through it all myself on the 7th and I’m so scared but excited that I’m finally doing something for me. 

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    7560 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I would try to be nice and hold out until New Year’s. You’ve told him this is what you want, now it’s his turn to decide if he wants it too. The size of the boxes under the tree don’t tell you anything, so try not to worry. Just be happy that you’ll know in a little over one week. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    3 posts
    Wannabee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Wow, I would pray on this situation! State the and tell yourself some of the facts… He should make you his wife, if ur good enough to be the mother of his child, your good enough to marry you! Plz email me [email protected], anytime my story is sorta similar to yours!

    Post # 6
    Member
    481 posts
    Helper bee

    Instead of flat out breaking up, could you try moving out? 

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