- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I’ve been reading here for a week or so and decided to jump in and say Hi. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years (in August). We lived an hour or so from each other when we first met but we moved in together after 8 months. I am patiently waiting.
We talked about our plans for our future wedding all the time and its something he enjoys talking about but I finally had to tell him to stop talking to me about it because it was driving me crazy for him to tell me we’d get engaged once he had money for a ring and then watch him spend it on other things. So he stopped bringing it up and so did I until he found out that he was going to have to pay LESS in taxes this year than he anticipated. I told him to save some of that for a ring with a wink and a nudge and he said he’s already got that figured out. 🙂 Since then we’ve both been in some close friends wedding and hung out with several married friends with kids and he’s back to talking about weddings and children. I participate but I just try to keep my cool and not ask questions or try to read into everything.
Its nice to meet all of you!