(Closed) New bee bordering on obsessed…

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
Member
9387 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

It sounds like you’re all on the same page which is key. He knows you want it and it sounds like he does too- so honestly as hard as it is I would just chill! Don’t bring it up for awhile and let him surprise you. If you make it to thanksgiving with out a ring then check in about it. If it’s about the money you can always tell him youd be happy with a smaller diamond/gemstone/simulant. Good luck 🙂 but really you’re in good shape!

Post # 3
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2352 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

dancesamira:  Yeah, you’re sooooo close!!  I was in a similar situation with my relationship, minus the home buying.  Still living together, though.  3+ years together, lots of talk and no action, holidays came and went, 30th b’day on a cruise which I thougth for SURE was going to be it…came and went!!  He didn’t propose until about 5 MONTHS LATER!!  Formally asked my mom on Mother’s day in May and proposed on a trip in July.  I think he was waiting for a time when I WASN’T expecting it, maybe your man is doing the same?  

Post # 4
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216 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Temple Beth Am/Love is Blind

I totally get it, but like PP said, what matters is that you’re both on the same page, so breathe! And enjoy the home you’re building together until it happens.

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