(Closed) New-bee here! Come say hi!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@E_Rigby:  Welcome! Maybe your SO is waiting for you to bring it up, since in the past when he brought it up you were apprehensive.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@E_Rigby:  Welcome to the Bee! We are happy to have you πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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1134 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Welcome to the bee! =)

This is an addicting site! Enjoy!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@E_Rigby:  My F was like that too. And I guess he was waiting for the “right time” and made sure I wasn’t expecting it. I really didn’t when he popped the question.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I kind of agree with MrsWe! He did talk a lot about it, and you were reluctant… which is totally fine! You had good reasons. But maybe he was also on a kind of shut up pact for men lol. Just guessing here, but I think it makes sense that he is waiting for you to be ready or at least mention it! 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Welcome!  As an encore bride myself, I had to bring up the topic to my fiance.  I made the mistake of saying I never wanted to get married again very early in our relationship, and the silly man listened to me!  The one time he took a hint πŸ˜‰ 

But in all seriousness, once I let him know that I was no longer anti-marriage, he got on board pretty quickly.

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hi and Welcome to the Hive!  Good luck with everything!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Hello and welcome πŸ™‚ It sounds like something you should revisit the topic with him, he probably fears if he brings it up that you will have the same feelings about it. To our dismay, men are not mind readers, so he doesn’t know that you’re ready and willing unless you verbalize it. Good luck :)!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@E_Rigby:  I’d never heard the term before the bee!  And my fiance and I have been known to watch Say Yes to the Dress together.  Mostly because he comes up with such HORRIBLE commentary on it!  This is the same man who threatens to do the chicken dance if I walk down the aisle in anything with feathers on it.  It’s a very non-confrontational way to bring it up though!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@E_Rigby:  Hey! Welcome! 

 

It sounds to me like your SO would probably appreciate it if you brought up the fact that you DO want to get married. I bet he became hesistant about bringing it up from your reactions when you were first together. If he was talking about it so much then, and you two are still happy together, I would imagine that the desire to marry you hasn’t left him!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@E_Rigby:  Welcome to the Bee! Hope your wait is short & sweet πŸ™‚

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