(Closed) *new bee* Here i went opening my mouth

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@MrsFarm0619:  I would say yes, if his eyes got wide when you mentioned diamond I would leave it alone. If the conversation arises about why you dont want diamond explain it to him but let him know that either way you will be happy with diamond or Morganite.

As long as the ring isnt ugly then what matters most is that he loves you enough to ask you to marry him. If you complain he might not think its worth it. 

Ages ago women didnt pick out their rings, the soon to be groom did. Mens roles in the planning and proposing are getting smaller. Unless he has extremely bad taste then just let him have this one moment.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I’d let him know what kind of stone you want, because he’s not a mind reader. That doesn’t mean you have to go with him to pick it out, and it can still be a huge surprise, but then you’ll be happy because you’ll get the stone you want and he’ll be happy he got you a ring you love. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee

I would have the convo with him about how you would love anything he got you (to save your butt in case he already has something 😉 ) 

but then go ahead and tell him that you’ve always loved the look of morganite. and explain to him what it is, what it looks like, because i really doubt he knows. 

Then drop it, and never mention it again. boys are pretty good at remember the really crucial stuff like that 🙂

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