(Closed) New Bee- My Story

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1013 posts
Bumble bee

We all feel like that.  Honestly is the best policy in my opinion.  I’ve told my SO exactly how it hurt my feelings.  I dont think its fair for you to suffer in silence. 

So talk to him in a non-confrontational manner, and basically just tell him how your feeling. 

Post # 4
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1417 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@skipanther:   Ugh, guys just don’t get it. How can they send us to look at erings and venues and not be proposing any time soon! They really DON’T get it!

   I hope he pops the question soon so you dont have to wait any longer( I’m still waiting too!)

  But the best advice someone else gave me ( someone from the bee lol)   Said do your own thing, start working out, keeping your nails nice and focusing on you! It does help a lot!

 

 Good luck!

Post # 5
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597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@skipanther:  I’m sorry, it sucks! But, chances are it’ll be sooner than you think NOT to get your hopes up but not even setting a deadline seems a bit fishy. 

Definatly get on the Mr. Bees plan, its not easy at first but you’ll get the hang of it. 

Welcome to the Bee! 😀 

Post # 6
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1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

That sucks – I think you should talk with him and let him know it has upset you. Dont suffer in silence!!

Post # 7
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158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Hugs!!! I know that feeling. It’s sooooo especially annoying not having a timeline because, hello!, this is my life too! I am in a very similar situation as you as far as time together, graduating, etc. I’ve told him before that I feel like he has a carrot (or carat? har har) tied on a string and is pulling me along without letting me get to it. But that’s the thing, it really does help (I think) to tell him how you feel and why these things can upset you. But you need to be specific. For example, (and I’ve said things along these lines..)

“It makes me feel like I am being rejected when months go by and no progress has been made” “I feel a bit let down because we looked at venues last year and we still aren’t engaged a whole year later” “I feel sad when you give me little engagement nuggets (rings, venue stuff), and I keep getting my hopes up, only to be let down again”

Also…Good things come to those who waitUndecided?? Ha! ……WinkWell…

Post # 8
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513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

My bf still has my ring and i am trying anxiously waiting for it.  And Bees what is SO stand for?? 🙂

Post # 9
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220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@nafarey7: SO stands for “significant other”

 

And i HATE the “good things come to those who wait.” I guess in some cases, it’s fine, but coming from my Boyfriend or Best Friend who isn’t very on top of plans and goals and timelines, it’s just FRUSTRATING.  I nearly have a whole pinterest board with things relating to that, but these are my favorites:

 

 

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