(Closed) New Bee that is officially Engagement OBSESSED! HELP!!! (Semi-long)

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1722 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Welcome to the Bee!!!!!! I was so obsessed with getting engaged, it about killed my relationship.  I litteraly had to bite my tongue on occasion in order to stop myself from talking about getting engaged.  The best thing I found was everytime I started thinking about getting engaged I would count to ten, take a deep breath and focus on something (anything) else.  This is the one thing your guy gets to controll so back off a little and enjoy this time with the man you love.  You should also hang out on the waiting boards there are so many women going through this same thing that can help you through the hard days, you will have plenty and this community is so helpful and can bring you back to reality when you start to go crazy from waiting.  I wish you the best of luck and hope it comes before you start getting into fights with your SO like I did.

Thanks for the well wishes, my holidays went a lot better then I thought they would 🙂

Post # 5
Member
1850 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Aug ’06, you say? It’s about time. 🙂

I think every bee takes it differently. Some get envoloped by it, some relax and anticipate, some don’t understand “waiting” at all. I’m of the first boat. I understand – I never planned out my wedding when I was a child or a teen and I definitely did not anticipate finding the love of my life in junior year of college.

It definitely DOES NOT help when everyone is getting engaged and you want to just have your moment, too. I look forward to hearing your proposal story and ring porn. 🙂 It’s harder waiting for some bees and this forum has helped me so much. All I can say is to trust your partner and buzz around while you wait!

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