- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2014
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We recently moved in together just a few months ago. I’ve never really been pushing or needing an engagement until recently after moving in and now I’m consumed. We have a wonderful relationship. We rarely fight, we do things together all the time, dates, vacations, we spend all free time together basically. we are each others best friends… We both don’t have too many friends outside of “us”. I have a child that is not his and he is awesome with her. And the 3 of us live together. Lately I’ve been bringing it up, getting engaged, and it turns into a fight. He says one day just not this instant and me crying about it won’t help it happen sooner. He says he wouldn’t be with me and live with me and my child if he didn’t want to get married.
If I keep bringing it up I know I’m going to ruin what we have… But what is his problem? We live together and he takes care of my kid that isn’t his… Why not make it official?! We also make good money so that’s not an issue either. he is 33 and I’m 27.
I feel like I shouldn’t have moved in with him without a ring… Ugh.