(Closed) New here.. Advice on proposal pressure / timing convo? (long sorry!)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2130 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I’m looking forward to what others post…I haven’t given my SO a timeframe. I did tell him that I would be comfortable with a proposal after being together a year, I heard somewhere about experiencing the person through “all of the seasons” I’m not sure where I heard it but I like that idea. So after a year has passed I will probably just flat out ask him what his ideal time frame is, because I’m blunt like that lol

Post # 4
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396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

If I found out my fiance had inhereited a heirloom ring I wouldn’t be sad! I would be excited.  I don’t really understand your reaction to this string of events to be honest. 

 

If his mom felt bad about the pressure then why do you think he is being pressured to propose? I think you are overthinking this… 

Post # 7
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1507 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

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