(Closed) New Here & Happy I'm not alone….

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hi Jennifer, 

I just want to say welcome. Although I am not waiting and am actually married, I now what i felt when I found this site. I felt alone and thought that I was alone in what i felt when I was waitng. Even though we dont want anyone else feeling what we feel when we wait, we get some sore of comfort that others know where we are coming from. 

I hope that you are not a waiting bee for long. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 4
Member
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

PS. I love your screen name

Post # 6
Member
50 posts
Worker bee

While we already (kind of) “met” on my post rant, I’d like to officially welcome you! Lol… It helps me on my good days & my bad here. And I’m with you… Not a day has gone by for at least 6 months that getting engaged wasn’t on my mind! The thought of waiting another 6+ is frightening! 

Pinterest is my other vice. I’m just hoping to get through this without doing anything drastic like picking out my dress pre-ring! ๐Ÿ˜‰

 

Good luck to you! When you get really impatient, just try to remember why you want to marry him and why that makes him worth waiting for. I’d say it works for me maybe 6 days out of 7 lol. 

Post # 8
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181 posts
Blushing bee

!!!!!! WELCOME !!!!! *HUGS* pull up a seat have a drink ..youll like it hereLaughing

Post # 9
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121 posts
Blushing bee

@brideoffrankenstein:  Welcome (officially)! I don’t talk about wedding stuff, I just think about it all. the. time! I don’t like talking about it with my friends because back in March I mentioned me and SO had a talk about looking at rings, and then my friend told our other friends that I was getting engaged. (6 months later, no ring lol). And you are def not alone! I think most of us on the waiting board came here to save our sanity.  WeddingBee has certainly helped me the last few months and I hope it helps you, too… Although the ladies here can’t help me from staring at my left hand, wondering what it would look like with a sparkly ring on it hahah. ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 12
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1762 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@brideoffrankenstein:  Hey welcome to the hive ๐Ÿ™‚ I know how you feel I was with my ex for 7  yrs and we have 2 kids and deep down I knew he wasnt the one for me i just stayed cuz i was too “comfortable” but i wasnt happy…so fast forward I met my SO now and hes is amazing towards my kids and the best guy we been together for over 2 1/2 years now and Im soooo waiting as well its frusting lol

Post # 14
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217 posts
Helper bee

@brideoffrankenstein:  Welcome! And I know how u feel, because my first night on Weddingbee was the best relief in the world. There are others who are in the same situation. I’m not crazy lol. 

 

As some PPs have said,you’ll like it here. Enjoy!

Post # 16
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646 posts
Busy bee

@brideoffrankenstein:  You and I are in the SAME boat. Met SO Feb 2011, and started dating right away. It just felt right! Was with my ex for 5 years. He was a nice guy, but I KNEW I would turn him down if he proposed (it was more of a friendship than a loving relationship I guess). I knew within 6 months of dating SO that we are meant to be together. Which is why I want the proposal already….lets get this show on the road!!!

Welcome to the bee. On your rough days, you have a place to turn to vent. These girls really are the best, and I feel like you can say things you cant even tell your best friends as the Bee girls really do understand why we are as crazy as we are!!

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