- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
Another vote for not weird at all.
Another vote for not weird at all.
Here it is! thanks for all the positive feedback!
It’s beautiful and I love the sentimental factor. No one needs to know your finances, this is such a wonderful way to honor your mom!
Gorgeous ring and I love the sentiment! I can’t imagine someone asking about whether he paid for it but I think it’d be sweet to share that it was your mom’s ring.
I think family rings make the best engagement/wedding rings.
I’d like to think my Mom would approve!
Nothing wrong at all!! Do it!
Totally appropriate. As mentioned above, you can have it re-sized, and you can even have it totally re-created into a different style, if you like. My best friend did that with her vintage engagement ring, because the 100-year old setting just wasn’t stable enough and the diamond fell out 3 times in the course of a year. Didn’t cost a lot (in relation to a new ring!) and it is gorgeous!
Our finances were tight when we got engaged too. And honestly, even though we talked about getting married andd I did think a proposal was coming soon, I was completely shocked when he proposed because we shared a bank account and I knew we didn’t have the money. Apparently, he was talking to his mom about wanting to propose and she offered to give him her engagement ring. So he had it reiszed and mailed it to my mom ahead of time before we flew out for Christmas. He proposed on Christmas Eve and my favorite thing about the ring was that it was from his family. It was very appropriate since he is so close with his family. I did get a separate wedding ring–in part because he wants to pass the engagement ring down to our kids, in part because the shape of it wouldn’t have worked with a wedding band, and in part because I wanted something smaller that I wouldn’t have to take off at work. But it was perfect for us, and I loved telling everyone that it was a family ring.
Totally worth it. After all, an engagement isn’t about the ring at all. It’s about the commitment you two are willing to make to each other. But, just so you know, that ring is GORGEOUS.
Yes, I will have to have it resized, but I am thinking about keeping it in the same setting.
My SO is very traditional, even though we live together, he wanted our engagement to be special. I’m glad that I brought the subject up, as I’m not getting any younger (I’m 47)and feel that we should take that final step.
I did mention using a simulated diamond, but he would have none of that! Like I said, very traditional. I wouldn’t care either way, I just want to be married to him!!
Have it resized and it will be a constant reminder of your mom 🙂 I was close with my gma, and wear one of her rings as a RHR and had her centerstone re-set for my e-ring. It makes it special!
I don’t think there’s anything weird at all about it. And I think your ring is beautiful and would look amazing with a plain platinum wedding band.
That ring is gorgeous, go for it!
I don’t think that there is anything wrong with wearing this ring as an engagement ring. It is a symbol that you have given your heart to someone and that seems to be true. He can still give you the wedding band and perhaps a right hand anniversary ring when your finances are better.
Not at all – I think that makes your ring even more sentimental! Not to mention the fact that it’s gorgeous!!
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