(Closed) New Relationship & Sex

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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Relat:  What is your culture if you do not mind me asking? It seems like there are many rules and a way to go about marrying someone in your culture that is very different from the American culture.

Post # 49
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

No No No – if you don’t belief in sex before marriage don’t be pressured into it !  A man who is worthy of you will respect your beliefs.

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Post # 50
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

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Relat:  There’s nothing wrong with your views; those are your values, what you believe and stand for.  Be honest with your SO and tell him you are not ready to compromise on marriage or sex.  It is ok not to be ready even if he is; you’re just in different places right now.  If he values and loves you enough he will be patient and wait until you are ready.

Post # 52
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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Relat:  This whole situation is entirely foreign to me, but here goes:

He has proposed to you, you are not ready to accept his proposal.

He feels that him asking you to marry him means that you are his wife.

He thinks that the person who he considers to be his wife should consent to sex with him.

His feelings are irrelevant. You have not consented to marriage – therefore you have not consented to sex. What he thinks are the proper actions for you to take are completely discounting the fact that you have NOT accepted his proposal.

Post # 53
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: Either Philadelphia City Hall or a small chapel.

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CarterLove:  Pretty much. The older I’ve gotten I’ve realized many men consider it part of a healthy, adult relationship.

Post # 55
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Helper bee

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Relat:  this should be a conversation for the beginning of the relationship, they should understand it before moving any further. 

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