- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
So I’ve been married for a little over a week now and the Monday after the wedding I went to the SS office to change my last name. I decided to drop my last name completely and take DH’s I thought no big deal lets get this over with b/c I have to change it at so many other places now. I got my new SS card in the mail today and I had a small panic attack and sort of what felt like an identity crisis. I had that name for almost 23yrs of my life and in a split second I’m no longer the person I was. It’s bittersweet and I’m happy and kinda sad all at once but I figure it just takes some getting used too. Any other bees feel this way? How did you cope or did you just deal with it?