New to site!

posted 4 months ago in Weddingbee
Post # 2
544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I just came by to say Hello.

I just post randomly on places so I can’t really answer your questions.

Post # 3
229 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Hi there! I’m sorry you got a rude response, for the most part the forums here are pretty civil (especially compared to other corners of the internets).  I also just post randomly (although I love the ring threads, so many sparklies!)

Anyhoodle, welcome to the bee!

Post # 4
368 posts
Helper bee


As for tips, there aren’t too many things you need to know. You kind of got the gist, even if it was communicated rudely, that there’s not much benefit to adding your two-cents on advice-related posts from years ago. You should also know that it’s frowned upon to make multiple/identical/darn near identical posts in different categories at the same time (say, making on post, putting it on the Engagement board, the copying it and posting it again on the Proposals board). Additionally, no one appreciates if you make a post, get a bunch of responses, then delete and make an identical post a day or two later. You can only delete three posts you create ever, I believe, so you won’t want to be deleting posts all willy-nilly either!

If you’re trying to buy or sell something, that’s better reserved for the Classifieds boards.

Other stuff… It’s obviously frowned upon to start drama, and personal attacks are of course a no-no!

That’s all that comes to mind right now. Welcome to the community!

ETA: One more thing! It’s not appreciated when you create a thread, get a bunch of responses, and never respond to any of them. Abandoning a thread without a single response/update when people have taken the time to respond can really come across as rude or unappreciative.

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